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$1200 lost!

Finally got a consultation with the doctor. And as it turns out she was willing to transfer even if I didn't get to 8 mm. But the nurses didn't convey that to me so I cancelled the cycle thinking that they weren't going to let me transfer before I got 8 mm and I wasn't even close to a millimeters so on Friday last week I said no I'm not doing this anymore I'm done.

So after the consultation I found out that the doctor would've been willing to potentially transfer. They gave me the instructions to return on Monday and that they would reevaluate but they didn't tell me that the doctor would have transferred.

So now I've spent $1200 last month on tests that is just burnt when I could have spent another $300 and gone ahead with the transfer this month. So now I'm distraught and angry and frustrated and I cry every day. They need to take their patients mental state into consideration when they're dealing with these! A five-minute conversation when somebody decides to cancel and then just throw your hands up I guess I would hope that they would've called me back and give me more counselling but they didn't so now I'm out $1200 and I have to go through this again this month. We've decided to push through and do one more month and then if it doesn't work then we're going to take a break. So my transfer will be at the beginning of June even if my lining isn't 8.

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